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  • Writer's pictureMistrix Violeta Félix

Going Independent and Moving To Boston

Yup. You read that right. I'm back to being independent! I genuinely couldn't be happier. Personally, I prefer to run my own operation as well as all the other freedoms and benefits that come with being independent. I could go on about the pros and cons of being indie vs being a house Domme, a̶̶̶n̶̶̶d̶̶̶ ̶̶̶h̶̶̶o̶̶̶w̶̶̶ ̶̶̶t̶̶̶h̶̶̶e̶̶̶ ̶̶̶A̶̶̶m̶̶̶e̶̶̶r̶̶̶i̶̶̶c̶̶̶a̶̶̶n̶̶̶ ̶̶̶m̶̶̶o̶̶̶d̶̶̶e̶̶̶l̶̶̶ ̶̶̶o̶̶̶f̶̶̶ ̶̶̶c̶̶̶o̶̶̶m̶̶̶m̶̶̶e̶̶̶r̶̶̶c̶̶̶i̶̶̶a̶̶̶l̶̶̶ ̶̶̶d̶̶̶u̶̶̶n̶̶̶g̶̶̶e̶̶̶o̶̶̶n̶̶̶s̶̶̶ ̶̶̶i̶̶̶s̶̶̶ ̶̶̶a̶̶̶n̶̶̶ ̶̶̶e̶̶̶x̶̶̶p̶̶̶l̶̶̶o̶̶̶i̶̶̶t̶̶̶a̶̶̶t̶̶̶i̶̶̶v̶̶̶e̶̶̶ ̶̶̶a̶̶̶n̶̶̶d̶̶̶ ̶̶̶t̶̶̶o̶̶̶x̶̶̶i̶̶̶c̶̶̶ ̶̶̶e̶n̶v̶i̶r̶o̶n̶m̶e̶n̶t̶ ̶̶̶t̶̶̶h̶̶̶a̶̶̶t̶̶̶ ̶̶̶b̶̶̶e̶̶̶n̶̶̶e̶̶̶f̶̶̶i̶̶̶t̶̶̶s̶̶̶ ̶̶̶f̶̶̶r̶̶̶o̶̶̶m̶̶̶ ̶̶̶t̶̶̶h̶̶̶e̶̶̶ ̶̶̶c̶̶̶r̶̶̶i̶̶̶m̶̶̶i̶̶̶n̶̶̶a̶̶̶l̶̶̶i̶̶̶z̶̶̶a̶̶̶t̶̶̶i̶̶̶o̶̶̶n̶̶̶ ̶̶̶o̶̶̶f̶̶̶ ̶̶̶s̶̶̶e̶̶̶x̶̶̶ ̶̶̶w̶̶̶o̶̶̶r̶̶̶k̶̶̶ ̶̶̶a̶̶̶n̶̶̶d̶̶̶ ̶̶̶i̶̶̶s̶̶̶ ̶̶̶a̶̶̶ ̶̶̶r̶̶̶e̶̶̶s̶̶̶u̶̶̶l̶̶̶t̶̶̶ ̶̶̶o̶̶̶f̶̶̶ ̶̶̶t̶̶̶h̶̶̶e̶̶̶ ̶̶̶c̶̶̶o̶̶̶r̶̶̶r̶̶̶u̶̶̶p̶̶̶t̶̶̶i̶̶̶n̶̶̶g̶̶̶ ̶̶̶n̶̶̶a̶̶̶t̶̶̶u̶̶̶r̶̶̶e̶̶̶ ̶̶̶o̶̶̶f̶̶̶ ̶̶̶c̶̶̶a̶̶̶p̶̶̶i̶̶̶t̶̶̶a̶̶̶l̶̶̶i̶̶̶s̶̶̶m̶̶̶,̶̶̶ but that's a subject for another day. I'm just happy to have made this decision, and I feel that it's for the best. Let me tell you, I sure missed being indie.

Now onto the second part of this announcement: New York City, I love you, but we're better off as friends with benefits. Yes, I love this city. However, I want to make a change in my life and this move is part of it. What can I say? I'm not exactly chained down to places or things and I constantly seek change. I'm moving to Boston. Why? Because I have a little cottage somewhere in a quiet area of New England, and I want to chill out after the hectic environment I was in the past year. It's as simple as that. I'll still be making frequent visits to New York City to take sessions, go to events, and see friends, I just won't be doing that while being woken up by my gay neighbor's explosive fights with his boyfriend at 3 am while I pay my soul and left tit in rent. So, to all my NYC clients and hopefuls: I will still take sessions in New York City, as I'll be traveling back and forth often. The only catch is that I need a minimum of one week's notice.

But wait, there's more! I'm leaving New York City on July 14th. That's right! If you want to see me, you have about 2 weeks! "But Violeta, why are you leaving so suddenly?" Because I'm going on a cross-country road trip from LA to Boston! "Why are you doing tha-" I'm not done! After my cross-country trip, I'll be flying to Europe in August and spending most of the month driving on a loop throughout the western part of the continent (whether I'll be taking sessions there is yet to be decided). My next two months are going to be packed full of travels and adventures, so I won't really be back for sessions in the US until September. Therefore: clients, friends, and creatures, if you want to see me, you have to do it pretty soon. If you haven't seen me before, now it's your time to go to my Serve Me page and book that first session.

That was a doozy of news, wasn't it?

With all of that said, I am grateful for all the wonderful subs I've played with, the beautiful people I've met, and the great friends I've made in New York City. You all know who you are. Thank you to those that opened their spaces, invited me into your collaborative groups, had tea with me, laughed with me, danced with me, and played with me. You have all made such an impact on my life and I will always be truly grateful for the wonderful moments I shared with you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you, thank you, thank you.

With much love,

-Mx. Violeta

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